theintellectualbadass

I see countless shit of people saying things like: “Oh, I don’t care if you’re asian.” “Oh, I don’t care if you’re black” “Oh, I don’t care if you’re atheist.” and it would all lead to this next line: “You follow me and I love you.”

I understand the “thought” of being all for equality and such, and I see your intention of showing how much you appreciate your followers, but hey, do you really really really have create a god-damn huge-ass post for that? Do you really have to? Are you doing this for the notes and shit? Are you trying to shove in our faces how anti-racist you are? You all go “spreading the love” but in turn you hate, you hate other people, regardless of gender or race. You go in a rage because of something and you don’t even consider the circumstances in which that event happened. And the talk about races. Oh really? You’re not racist? THEN WHY TALK ABOUT THEIR RACES? On my belief, saying that you don’t care what race/gender/sexual orientation they are already implies that you did take time to notice what they’re categorized into. You really don’t care? THEN DON’T FREAKING SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT. I mean, come on. You don’t get it? Here is an example:

“Someone follows you”

Oh, hi there follower! Oh follower, I see that you’re atheist. Oh follower, even though you’re atheist, i’ll still love you, my dear follower.

Number one, I hate the implied truth that you love that person because he/she follows you. Well, yes, there is the joy of having a follower, but loving them for the sole purpose of following you? I have come through hundreds of blogs and I am thankful that some of them actually take time to know their followers. People who actually make friends. Yes, I can say with confidence that they are not racist. Why? They do not talk about it. They do not TAKE NOTICE of it. They do not give it existence.

Number two, your followers have names. Yes, you might have a thousand followers but hey, surely you must know a handful? I believe Tumblr has the purpose of connecting people through their posts, that we are encouraged to exchange different views and therefore making us know a little bit more about each other, even just through our urls.

Appreciate, not just through posting that you do. Actually have the time to thank them with your own effort, as they have given theirs to show other people what they like about you. Read what they have to say too. You will always learn from other people.

I am disappointed as I see that following other BLOGS has become just a trend. I can always hope.

YES FELLOW REVERENDS, JARED AS IN MIPIE’S JARED OHOHOHOHO~ It wasn’t exactly the cheery, happy, everyone-was-friends meeting, because, well, Mipie wasn’t really that glad to see him. (Actually she was, she can’t realize it yet. HEHE HI MIPIE I LUFF YEW. 8D) HE WAS LATE OKAY. I called, and then he was like: “Were you the one who wanted to see me? Okay, I’ll be there 10 minutes tops” and he arrived after TWENTY TO FREAKING MINUTES. But, yeah, he liked to be late. He explained that to me later one (and I tell you it was serious talk. I could’ve cried. LOL KIDDING. But, yeah, you get the point.) AND I FELT REALLY BAD OKAY. So there’s this thing going on between the two of them, and I really really wanted to give advice and shizz, but hey, I’m not in the place to do that. They know each other better than I do. And, well, it’s best to leave them to their own devices, because I am not involved, and I shouldn’t be. BUT HEY THERE ARE GOOD PARTS TOO~ So, we talked a little about music. He told me he beatboxes, I told him I sing, and he asked if he thinks I CAN sing. HAHAHA. But we agreed the best place to take center stage is in the shower. YEAH SHOWER BEYBEHH. :)) And uhhh.. there was an awkward pause, and he’s like: “you’re waiting for me to give a sample of beat-boxing, aren’t you?” Actually, I don’t, but, HAHA I just let him go ahead. And then.. I sang Valerie because it’s the song stuck in my head, and then he was BEATBOXING OMG HE’S GOOD. It was the sole epic moment right there. And it helped ease of the pressure, or awkwardness. (I am awkward in real life. HUHUHU) And then we went back to talking about serious stuff. Yes, he is nice, and it seems that he did mean everything he told me. But I was waiting for him to say something, which he didn’t. I asked him if when they get into a non-talking frenzy, is if he knows that he has done something wrong/he had a fault, etc. He said, yes, that no matter the intensity of the wrong, it’s still a wrong. I then asked of he lets Mipie know that he knows he has a wrong. He said he tries to, but I never heard him say that he tries to apologize for it. I don’t know, Maybe that contributes to everything else. I was really really waiting for him to say that, that he does say sorry, as in the sorry you know that’s really saying sorry, but he didn’t. He may have implied it through something else, but, I don’t know. Maybe it’s just me. BUT THEN I can see that he still values his friendship with Mipie. And I give him credit for that. I guess the only problem is communication. He needs lessons from Mipie. (HAHA I LUFF YEW MIPIE FOREVERR) All in all, I really really want them to talk, and sort through what’s really going on. AND NOBODY GOES IN A RAGE EHEM. Nobody really wants to hurt anyone, so I don’t really see the problem between the two of them. I just hope they talk again, AND NOT MAKE IT 1O938U21O3U21 TIMES MORE AWKWARD ONCE I’M THERE. Haha. It was nice meeting him though, but there’s always more to know about a person after the first try.